Parties are crazy in downtown San Diego.
It was wonderful. Check out the view.
View from the 24th floor
The buildings nearby
But that party reminded me of a wonderful game-related point. Don’t dare think that “if you rent it, they will come”.
A lot of guys think that if they get the fancy, sexy apartment with the most wonderful view, the hotties will naturally be attracted to them because of their wonderful abode. Unfortunately, it doesn’t work that way.
You may stumble upon a random chick (with the lowest self-esteem on the planet) that will be impressed enough by such that will accept your weak invitation back to your place. But so what??? That has little to do with you as a man and as a human being.
You as a man should be able to attract a woman based on you being you. Not because of the car you drive or the view from your balcony or the jeans or shirt or sport coat that you’re wearing at the moment. None of that matters after she realizes that you only have one sport coat or one pair of jeans or that your dad is paying your rent on the apartment that smells like feet.
What really matters is that you’re a cool guy who can help her enjoy life as much as you’re enjoying your life and that you enjoy her company as much as she enjoys yours. What really matters is that you can playfully tease her and she can understand when you’re joking and laugh too. What really matters is when it’s just you two left on the earth, you two will be happy with each other.
Homes and apartments and cars and shoes and pants and watches and jackets and spinning rims are all temporary. They are the ultimate distraction from the things that really matter in life. You should have something about you that goes above and beyond the material things that won’t be there if you lose your worthless job where you are easily replaceable and that you don’t like going to anyway.
What’s most important to you in a mate?
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